There's a unique and exhausting duality to being an emotional overthinker. The slightest ripple in the water feels like a tidal wave. We feel so much, so deeply, in moments that a "normal" person—a term we use with a certain irony—might not even register. This hypersensitivity, however, is not a superpower. It's a double-edged blade. On one side, it cuts so deeply that a significant achievement feels muted, almost unreal. The exhilaration is a distant echo. Someone has to remind us of its magnitude, to validate the accomplishment we can't quite grasp ourselves. Yet, this validation is a paradox. It feels like a reminder for something we should have known all along, a confirmation of a truth we can't feel internally. This emotional disconnect is baffling, a strange numbness that settles over moments meant for joy. And then, the other side of the blade cuts. As an overthinker, we are prophets of our own pain. We see the betrayal coming, the disappointment on the...
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